Shopping

Last Friday my dad and I went shopping at a nearby mall. Items to purchase: shoes, belt, backpack. We went to the first two places together and then split, agreeing to meet at a bookstore in an hour. I made a valiant effort to find shoes suitable to my taste, but failed miserably. My father also failed in his shopping efforts and we left empty-handed. I personally find it rather amusing.

Is there something wrong with my character because I was unable to find shoes that suited me? I have an opinion about the way I want to look, and that includes shoes. To some extent my shopping diffulty could be (is) related to pride. On the other hand, if properly carried out the way I decide to dress can be a good indication of my inner traits. Dressing in a becoming manner may also produce positive feedback and help the individual to be more becoming inside.

Is all pride bad? Is there a difference between self-respect and pride?

Pride often helps people to behave, dress, and speak the way they should. However, the end does not justify the means. It would be ideal for Christians to replace their pride-based motivations with a strong desire to live for God and be all he wants them to be. Focus on God and the way your life affects others, not your own image or potential embarrassment.